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Teaming up with your doctor
The best relationship is a collaborative one


 

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Knowing how to talk to your doctor and other members of your health care team can help you build a collaborative relationship with them.

Your doctor needs information from you to make an accurate diagnosis and determine treatment. There are no lab tests for mood disorders. You need to let your doctor know you want thorough information from him. That's more likely to happen if you've established a mutually respectful partnership.

It's always a good idea to be an informed consumer. But to get off on the right foot, it's best not to step on toes. Do-it-yourself diagnosis or armchair prescribing may not be appreciated. Your doctor relies on his/her experience treating people with varied symptoms who respond to treatment in different ways. After you've established a relationship, your doctor may welcome your input.

If you arrive at your visits prepared, you can both get the most benefit from them. Time is usually short. Information you can bring with you about your symptoms, background and life situations can be invaluable.

Here are some things you can provide at your visits to make the most of them.

At your initial visit

  • A description of your symptoms - when they started, what makes them better, how often you've experienced them. If you know, tell what seems to set them off.
  • A list of family members who have had mental health problems. Family history provides important clues in diagnosing mood disorders.
  • An overview of your past psychiatric treatment, including medications and psychotherapy. Which meds worked, which didn't, and what side effects were troublesome.
  • Medical history and any medical conditions you are currently being treated for. Tell your doctor or nurse if you are pregnant or intend to become pregnant.
  • A list of your medications: prescription drugs, over-the-counter medicines, vitamins, herbal products, and other supplements you're taking. Don't forget to include contraceptives. And tell the doctor if you have any allergies.
  • Honest information about your diet, physical activity, smoking, alcohol or drug use, and sexual history. Withholding this information can be harmful.
  • Relevant life factors, such as past or current abuse or stressful lifestyle
  • A notepad or tape recorder if you're worried you'll forget later what was discussed
  • A trusted friend or relative who could take notes, offer moral support, and help you remember what was discussed. Your doctor may or may not permit this.
  • Your questions. If you're not clear about what your doctor or nurse is asking you to do or why, ask to have it explained again. "Can you help me understand that?"

At subsequent visits
Questions and concerns. Before your appointment, make a list of what you want to ask.

 
  • Man talking with doctorAnswers to questions. Do you feel better or worse? What symptoms and side effects have you experienced? Your doctor may ask you to rate on a scale of one to 10. Have you taken your medication on schedule? It's difficult to remember between visits. Keeping a mood chart or notes on a calendar will make it easier to keep track.
  • Information. Have there been significant changes in your life. (You may discuss this topic in more detail with a therapist.)
  • Patience. Doctors are often pressed for time. Your discussion may not be as long as other of you would prefer. You may want to ask to set up another time when you can discuss an issue more extensively.

Questions to ask your doctor about medications

  • What is the name of the medication, brand and generic names and what is it supposed to do?
  • Is there a generic brand of the drug you can use? You can also ask this of your pharmacist.
  • When should I start to feel better?
  • How and when do I take it, and when do I stop taking it? Ask what the usual dose is; what to do if you miss a dose and special directions on how to use the medicine, such as whether to take it with or without food
  • What foods, drinks, herbs, supplements or other medications should I avoid while taking the prescribed medication?
  • What are the side effects, and what should I do if they occur? Are there side effects that typically go away after a few days or weeks? What side effects should I notify him of immediately?
  • Will I need any tests to make sure the medicine is working as it should? For example, regular blood tests are used to measure levels of lithium.

Do your homework on medications. Be respectful of your doctor's position, but feel free to ask questions. The doctor may be choosing this medication over others because of his experience with the drugs and your particular condition. Decisions about medications should include your input, especially if you are experiencing side effects and you want to make a change.

The most effective and comfortable relation between doctor and patient is a partnership.

Sources
The National Women's Health Information Center
U.S. Department of Health and Human Services
Food and Drug Administration
PsychEducation.org by Jim Phelps, MD

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